The role of ego as a driver in social media

I’ve watched the recent launches of Google Wave and Twitter Lists with some amusement. Everyone wanted to be among the first to trial Google Wave (including me, I admit). Of course, once people got it, they realised that it wasn’t so great for collaboration software to be in such exclusive release. And everyone wanted Twitter Lists before it was rolled out to all users. Then, of course, they wanted to be listed by someone else. As many times as possible. Please. It matters how many lists I’m on. Really, it does.

 

I wonder who is reading and following and paying attention to all these lists?

 

I am guilty too. Who doesn’t want to be a “chosen one” when the algorithms dole out social media special feature lovin’? But this phenomenon also reminded me of something very important: ego is a primary driver in social media.

 

Ego can be found in any community where people reside. Whether it be forums or Facebook, people love hierarchies, exclusivity and the chance at their proverbial 15 minutes. Who is the first to know the latest gossip or information? Who found the answer to the question everyone is wondering about? What new gadget did you just spend half (or all) of your paycheque on? Spending is even sweeter when you can tell 3500 followers about it on Twitter.

 

So as social media professionals, how can we use ego in our initiatives? I think it is important to remember the following points:

 

1. Information gathering has always been a social event. In my Masters thesis, I discussed how news spread before the printing press. The first news medium was word of mouth. And special status is afforded to those who have the best information. Thus, reputation becomes key. If a person is able to consistently provide new information, we go to them as a source. This is, of course, Media 101 stuff, but it is important to remember that social media works in the same way. Give people the opportunity to show off what they know and you will have a winner.

 

2. Exclusivity can work to your advantage. If you create the illusion of scarcity, you will attract attention (assuming your initial offer is good enough). Everyone wants the latest and greatest and they want to have it before any of their friends. A great example of this is the strategy of online merchants, such as RueLaLa, Haute Look and Gilt Groupe, requiring membership by invitation only. These sites still performed well during the recent economic slowdown despite their merchandise’s high price tags.

 

3. Make people feel like they are part of something special. A viral initiative is only as good as its potential, and potential is severely limited when nobody cares about what’s happening. You have to make people care about what you are promoting so ensure that everything associated with your initiative is of the highest quality possible.

 

4. People love things that make them think about themselves. It’s sad but true. ‘What type of _____ are you?’ quizzes and activities that are all about the user work surprisingly well. But you have to be careful with this because of my point number three: other people have to care about what they’re doing too. And while you might be interested in the fact that you fell into the “Yummy Mummy” category assessment as a result of that quiz, few others do. Believe me.

 

5. Help people out. A little promotion can go a long way online. If you have a community, make it a habit to showcase the members’ strengths and personal endeavours (if it fits in with your objectives). Do your community members have their own blogs and pet projects? Let these shine once in awhile. Part of having a community is giving back and you will win brand enthusiasts if you follow this mantra.

 

How does ego help drive your social media initiatives?

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  • Many thanks for your comments. I agree with @joannespain that there are many drivers that influence a person's social media activities or participation in social media at all. For example, someone may join a support forum because he needs help from a community and/or wishes to help others. Community members often become unpaid moderators because they wish to give back to a community that has been there for them. A person may join a brand's community because she feels so passionate about a product or service that she wants to become involved beyond her role as a customer.

    I think it is important to remember the self-esteem component of ego. Beyond just self-promotion, being connected makes people feel good about themselves. I always feel happier when I am engaged in stimulating conversations with others and enjoy making a contribution. I gain pleasure from the act of collaborating with others and helping someone out with information. While I agree that an over-inflated ego can be dangerous in the realm of social media (and, to Steve's point, unsustainable), I don't think one's ego has to be necessarily negative.

    Perhaps this one needs a follow-up post on the role of the super-ego in SM? :)

  • Ego is definitely a big part of social media - just like it is a part of social 'anything' and a factor in most relationships between people.

    Social media helps respond to ego in many ways including:
    - I'm successful and smart but ppl don't know it so I'll tell them (or let them find out themselves by the quality of my posts)
    - I'm not successful in (insert field/subject/life) but I can still be popular/cool/famous as measured by a metric of some sort (i.e. followers)

    As @joannespain says their are other drivers, however if ego wasn't a factor its likely people wouldn't be on social networks (or they at least would have protected their updates.)

    There are some exceptions of course and the more closed the network the greater the number of other drivers but ego is usually present to some degree.
  • I love that I'm commenting below both Keith and Jo :) Feels like a friendly catch up in here rather than a blog comment!

    And I think therein lies one big key of Social Media (as we continue to term it). Media is social too, it was just never trackable. We ALL used to talk about the news on the front page and the gossip section. Nowadays, we use it to remain in the loop on different types of news - be it of our friends, our followers or our nation.

    And I think that is the real big value of 'social' media. It allows us to join together and build consensus and community quickly. It echos ego, and requires a healthy dose of it to be useful (as Keith made mention of). But it is much more than that and requires much more sacrifice of the self to be useful than a pure egomaniac would allow.

    Catch you kids in the play ground!
  • joannespain
    This is an interesting post. I think ego is one driver for people who use social media. What about the other drivers?
    I would suggest that efficiency is quite a big one and what about access to a highly tailored information source? (I would generally rather read my twitter stream and the blogs I follow rather than newspapers).
    I am sure there are many others.
    People are driven by multiple things, some drivers are more outstanding than others, but the outstanding drivers are different according to the individual.
    What are your thoughts?
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